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		<title>Ted Cruz Talks About Texas, David Dewhurst&#8217;s Attacks and Money, The Tea Party &amp; More</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Melissa Clouthier</dc:creator>
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<p>Tonight, I had the very special opportunity to talk to former Texas Solicitor General Ted Cruz. Ted is running for U.S. Senate but first he must win a very expensive and very challenging primary against an opponent who is spending a million dollars a week to beat him. He&#8217;s still confident.</p>
<p>Ted received another big endorsement &#8212; this time from Governor Sarah Palin. He&#8217;s also been endorsed by Rand Paul, (and just now, RON Paul!!), Mike Lee, and a bunch of other people.</p>
<p>What Ted needs is your vote and money.</p>
<p>Please go to <a href="http://tedcruz.org">TedCruz.org</a> and <a href="https://secure.piryx.com/donate/MuvqSNzw/tedcruz/palinsplash">DONATE HERE</a>. He needs your help. He&#8217;s running against a pile of money.</p>
<p>Have a question about Ted Cruz? <a href="http://libertypundits.com/2012/05/right-doctor-145-time-with-ted-cruz/">He answers it here</a>. Everything from social to fiscal to economic issues. Listen and share!</p>
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		<title>About The Time Magazine Attachment Parenting Cover</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 15:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Melissa Clouthier</dc:creator>
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<p><em>Time Magazine</em> wants you to pay attention to their provocative picture. Why? What are they trying to say? </p>
<p>When looking at imagery, it sometimes takes a bit to get what the photographer/editor is trying to say. Here are some thoughts in no particular order.</p>
<p>1. Context: The image of a three year old boy sucking on his mom&#8217;s breast is being put on the cover of the Time magazine for <strong>Mother&#8217;s Day weekend</strong>.</p>
<p>2. Implication: <strong>Mothers are crazy.</strong></p>
<p>3. Implication: <strong>Breastfeeding is crazy.</strong></p>
<p>4. Implication: <strong>Attachment parenting is oedipal.</strong> (Look it up.)</p>
<p>5. Implication: <strong>Breastfeeding is sexual.</strong> The mother&#8217;s smug expression indicates that she&#8217;s enjoying the interaction just a little <em>too</em> much.</p>
<p>6. <strong><em>Time</em> is desperate for attention</strong> and will get it. [Is getting it, obviously.] Also, I suspect the editor/writer <a href="http://blog.imperfectparent.com/2011/05/16/game-of-thrones-extending-extended-breastfeeding-and-beyond/">watches Game of Thrones</a>.</p>
<p>Bottom line, <em>Time</em> is pushing forward the idea that mothering is often, if not always, overdone. That too much emphasis is put on mothering. Attachment parenting is weird, sexual, and even abusive.</p>
<p>Mothering, in short, is being demonized as too powerful, crazy, and scary and that it&#8217;s abusive to children&#8211;nigh unto sex abuse.</p>
<p>The cover is a play on the Madonna imagery of Mary with the Christ child. It takes that image of selfless love and motherly devotion and turns it inside out into something selfish, narcissistic, and sexual.</p>
<p>As a mom who breastfed all her kids and beyond time when many are comfortable with &#8212; 18 months, 2 years, and 2 1/2 years consecutively &#8212; this cover is patently offensive.</p>
<p>Women who actually care about mothering are seen as crazy, wrongly-focused and weird. So, the solution is to conflate all moms with the admittedly extreme moms who go overboard.</p>
<p>But who is going to draw that line?</p>
<p>As <a href="http://www.politico.com/blogs/media/2012/05/time-magazines-provocative-new-cover-123059.html">Mika of Morning Joe noted</a>, the Time article isn&#8217;t even about breast feeding &#8212; it&#8217;s about Dr. Bill Sears.</p>
<p>The picture is a picture of desperation. It is attention whoring but it&#8217;s at the expense of children, mothers, healthy breastfeeding, and the bond between mom and child.</p>
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		<title>War On Women Wisconsin Edition: Slut Shaming Is Okay When Feminists Do It</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 22:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Governor Scott Walker&#8217;s campaign spokeswoman Ciara Matthews finds herself on the receiving end of misogyny by feminists and leftist press.</p>
<p>Her crime?  She waited tables at Hooters while going to college.  <a href="http://host.madison.com/ct/blogs/walker-s-hooters-connection-and-other-fun-facts-about-campaign/article_9f172e82-859e-11e1-9032-001a4bcf887a.html">Steven Elbow asks the penetrating question</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>But to the direct question: Were you a Hooters girl? She said, “I was.”</p>
<p>Matthews said she waited tables for the popular restaurant chain &#8212; which features tasty chicken wings and waitresses in short shorts and low-cut tops –- while attending college at the University of Nevada-Las Vegas.</p>
<p>“So you guys want to write a story that I waited tables in college,” she said. “I’m confused as to why that’s a story.”</p>
<p>Well, she may have a point. What makes news is not always easy to pinpoint. But as we say in the biz: <strong>You know it when you see it.</strong> [Emphasis added.] And with a recall election looming in which she will often be front-and-center as Walker battles to keep his job, details that might otherwise be ignored become interesting.</p></blockquote>
<p>Like porn? So, working at Hooters is like story porn? That&#8217;s the allusion that this writer made:</p>
<blockquote><p>The phrase was famously used by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Supreme_Court">United States Supreme Court</a> Justice <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Potter_Stewart">Potter Stewart</a> to describe his threshold test for pornography in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacobellis_v._Ohio"><em>Jacobellis v. Ohio</em></a> (1964). <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obscenity">Obscenity</a> is not <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech">protected speech</a> under the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miller_test">Miller test</a>, and can therefore be censored.</p>
<p>I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description ["hard-core pornography"]; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But <strong>I know it when I see it</strong>, and the motion picture involved in this case is not that. <em>[Emphasis added.]</em></p>
<p>—Justice Potter Stewart, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concurring_opinion">concurring opinion</a> in <em>Jacobellis v. Ohio</em> <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Case_citation">378 U.S. 184</a> (1964), regarding possible obscenity in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Les_Amants"><em>The Lovers</em></a>.</p>
<p>The expression became &#8220;one of the most famous phrases in the entire history&#8221; of the Supreme Court.[1</p></blockquote>
<p>Nice.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s just the beginning. Jezebel publishes a <a href="http://jezebel.com/ciara-matthews/">provocative picture of Ciara</a>. Because, you know, conservative women get what&#8217;s coming to them.</p>
<p>And Ciara&#8217;s story comes on the heels of feminists doubling down on attacking Ann Romney.</p>
<p><a href="http://nation.foxnews.com/bill-maher/2012/04/14/pig-maher-attacks-ann-romney">Bill Maher gets in on the act</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Oh, and don&#8217;t forget <a href="http://pandagon.net/index.php/site/comments/the-general-election-has-started-and-the-stupid-levels-are-already-off-the">Amanda Marcotte and the feminists over at Pandagon</a>. Some women are more equal than others, just ask Amanda.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>And then there&#8217;s <a href="http://ideas.time.com/2012/04/13/hillary-rosen-was-right-ann-romney-is-out-of-touc/?xid=gonewsedit#ixzz1rxAgRtu4">Time Magazine&#8217;s Judith Warner</a> piling on Ann Romney, too. Her implication is laughable. As though, she, Judith Warner, is somehow more touch with the suffering masses than Ann Romney.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>And finally, because what would your day be like without <a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2012/04/16/roseanne-barr-on-ann-and-mitt-romney-and-the-mommy-wars.html">Roseanne Barr&#8217;s opinion</a>, the comedienne weighs in. It&#8217;s what you&#8217;d expect. More privilege bashing from a woman <a href="http://www.celebritynetworth.com/richest-celebrities/actors/roseanne-barr-net-worth/">who is unbelievably privileged</a>.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>On the positive side, one feminist, <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/deborahljacobs/2012/04/15/a-working-mom-defends-the-lululemon-stay-at-home-mother/2/">Wendy S. Goffe at Forbes, said this</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>I thought of all this when the news broke recently about Democratic strategist Hilary Rosen’s comment that Ann Romney “never worked a day in her life.”</p>
<p>I don’t know Ann Romney, but as a working mom, I don’t know how she found the time to raise five children. And by the way, Ann Romney has multiple sclerosis. Her life sure sounds a lot harder than going to an office, where someone else makes the coffee, and I know my daughter is well cared for by a nanny that is the closest thing to Mary Poppins in the 21<sup>st</sup> century.</p>
<p>As a Democrat, I am simply embarrassed by that comment.  Rightly distancing himself from Hilary Rosen, President Obama came to Ann Romney’s defense, and the defense of all stay-at-home moms, saying that “there’s no tougher job than being a mom. . . Anybody who would argue otherwise, I think, probably needs to rethink their statement.” I am proud to have a president who is in touch with his constituents, regardless of political party or appearances.</p>
<p>I also feel privileged to have the job that I do and the ability to hire a nanny. Frankly, I don’t have the skills to raise five children.</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Many liberals are wholly hypocritical about how they treat conservative women&#8211;whether they&#8217;re young, beautiful up-and-comer working outside the home women or middle-aged, working inside the home moms.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>They hate conservative women and attacks are fair game.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s too bad because it seems to be the opposite of what the Women&#8217;s Movement was supposed to be about.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Says Goffe:</p>
<blockquote><p>None of us lead the lives our appearance suggests. We each lie in bed at night with our personal terrors as to what life could be, or about what life is like right now, and whether we have the strength to get through it. Clothes and money rarely can make that go away.</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>The women&#8217;s movement loses all credibility with it&#8217;s &#8220;choices for me, but not for thee&#8221; and creating the abortion litmus test.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>When conservative women are destroyed because they dissent from popular feminist opinion, all women lose. Why can&#8217;t liberal women see this?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Thanks for the links <a href="http://hotair.com/archives/2012/04/17/wi-dems-running-on-platform-of-property-tax-hikes/">Hot Air</a> (Ed has more at the link about the Wisconsin tax deal and recall election), <a href="http://pjmedia.com/instapundit/141051/">Insty</a>, and <a href="http://althouse.blogspot.com/2012/04/what-is-connection-between-my-being-pro.html">Ann Althouse</a>.</p>
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		<title>Pinterest Is Sexist&#8230;.Against Women Says Forbes Feminist</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 22:39:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Pinterest is sexist&#8230;.against women. Seriously, that&#8217;s the position of <a href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/shenegotiates/2012/04/10/pinterest-is-a-female-impersonator/2/">Victoria Pynchon who says</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Pinterest Frames Women’s Interests within Tight Gender Boundaries</p>
<p>Go on over to Pinterest and try to find a category for business, marketing, management, entrepreneurism, politics, activism, reproductive choices, negotiation, finance, investing, law, consulting, journalism, or pretty much anything having to do with women working for a living.</p></blockquote>
<p>This is, in a word, ridiculous.</p>
<p>Go to Barnes-N-Noble and what do you see? Racks of home improvement, cooking, house and garden, and fashion porn. That&#8217;s right, porn. It&#8217;s fantasy for the average woman, who comes home to her crappy couch and Hamburger Helper.</p>
<p>Where does she come home from? Work. What does she read because the last thing she wants to do is watch the news and/or think about business? Traditional Home, Better Homes &#038; Garden, or in my bigwig President of a division at a Fortune 500 corporation sister: Rolling Stone (I know, I don&#8217;t get it either) and Conde Nast Travel or something.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s in these magazines? Beautiful pictures, mostly. Some human interest stories. Tips for living.</p>
<p>Why, just like Pinterest!</p>
<p>Yesterday, President Obama&#8217;s Pinterest team pinned some garbage about how awesome he is and so I trolled the pins. I linked to the truth. I disputed on a factual basis. No one disputed the facts, mind you. They disputed whether I should be talking about politics.</p>
<p>&#8220;Pinterest is a happy place,&#8221; one pinner said.</p>
<p>Okay then. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m figuring that Pinterest has done tons of market research and knows exactly what women want. Just as random porn sites know exactly what men want. </p>
<p>Is this a gross overgeneralization? Of course.</p>
<p>I noticed the constrained categories on Pinterest, too. Eh. I&#8217;ve worked around them. I have a <a href="http://pinterest.com/melissatweets/best-practices/">Best Practices business page</a>. I have a <a href="http://pinterest.com/melissatweets/tech-talk/">Tech Talk</a> page. I have an <a href="http://pinterest.com/melissatweets/america-the-beautiful/">America the Beautiful</a> page. And then there&#8217;s the <a href="http://pinterest.com/melissatweets/politics-of-freedom/">Politics of Freedom page</a>.</p>
<p>They have lots of followers. <a href="http://pinterest.com/melissatweets/yum/">My recipes page has more</a>. Yes, I&#8217;ve used some of them&#8211;even women who own a couple business have to eat, and horrors! might like to cook.</p>
<p>What seems sexist to me is that a woman would consider a site dedicated to what most women consider interesting discriminatory. </p>
<p>After years of attempted gender reconstruction, and after years of women working (and nearly 80% of women do), women are still wired as women. That is, what stimulates them visually is, say, different than men. And that&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p>Being a girly girl is okay. I say that as a woman who has always liked &#8220;guy stuff&#8221; more&#8211;Google search metrics pegged me as a 50 to 60 year old man interested in technology and politics.</p>
<p>What bothers me is that to be a feminist, one cannot have traditionally feminine interests without being perceived as &#8220;less than&#8221;. Who is discriminating again?</p>
<p>If the majority of women like gardening, cooking, home improvement, kids crafts, and fashion, what do I care? Really? Why in the world should the difference bother any other woman?</p>
<p>I suggest the tomboys among us embrace Pinterest. It&#8217;s finally a female-dominated social media platform. It&#8217;s beautiful in form. It&#8217;s aspirational in substance.</p>
<p>Pinterest has the men joining in droves, too. As the demographics even out, categories will probably be added. Why? <em>Because the market demands it</em>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not discrimination. It&#8217;s Marketing 101 in practice. </p>
<p>But really, if men have to submit their boards to categories of the Matriachy&#8217;s standards, is that so bad?</p>
<p>Updated:</p>
<p>My friend <a href="http://www.adrienneroyer.com/about-2-2/">Adrienne Royer</a> says this:</p>
<p>There&#8217;s so much stupid here, I don&#8217;t know where to begin. </p>
<p>1. Pinterest is still in beta. You MUST ASK FOR AN INVITATION. The women who are there are there because they want to be. Pink, lace and pretty houses aren&#8217;t being forced down their throats.</p>
<p>2. You&#8217;d think a writer at Forbes could do some research. Pinterest was started by a group of guys. Unless these men miraculously understand women better than any XY chromosome in history, the adoption of the site by women was purely accidental. </p>
<p>In fact, Pinterest was started to be an idea board for creative thought leaders. The main founder has a degree in architecture and worked at Facebook. He was into design, typography and photography. He thought the site would take off in the creative class. </p>
<p>The way women have taken to it has shocked everyone, including Silicon Valley. </p>
<p>3. The real story isn&#8217;t that Pinterest isn&#8217;t forcing the patriarchy down our throats. The real story is that women love social networks, the ability to share information that is vetted by trusted people and the ability to research. The real story is how Silicon Valley is still a boy&#8217;s world and women are pretty much shut out. Right now, there are all kinds of venture capitalists scratching their heads and wondering how Pinterest became some popular because none of them ever thought about designing a social network that would draw women. </p>
<p>Why aren&#8217;t they harping on that?</p>
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		<title>The Hunger Games And Children: Who Should See This Movie?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 23:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Hunger Games premise is not for the faint of heart: children are offered up as sacrifices to appease the central government gods who control 13 districts. [See more about an explanation of the movie in <a href="http://melissablogs.com/2012/03/27/the-hunger-games-the-wrong-conclusion-part-1/">Part I of my Hunger Games Series</a>.]</p>
<p>Here are the tributes:</p>
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<p>You&#8217;ll note that some are babies. And, in fact, in a wrenching scene one of the youngest of them dies a brutal death. And the protagonist Katniss Everdine gives the child funeral rites even though she is a competitor.</p>
<p>The kindness in the midst of the brutality causes a riot in the dead girl&#8217;s district.</p>
<p>It is a lot to take in for an adult. For a child? Well.</p>
<p>Not all children should see this movie. In fact, children under 10 &#8211; 12 shouldn&#8217;t see the movie no matter their constitutions. <a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/people-skills/201203/should-children-see-hunger-games-0">There is some good reasoning here as to why</a>.</p>
<p>One of my older children (14) is especially sensitive and won&#8217;t be seeing the movie either until it&#8217;s on a small screen, the movie can be stopped, and the issues explained. Also, the books must be read first.</p>
<p>My twelve year old daughter did see the movie. She&#8217;d read all the books and didn&#8217;t seem to grasp the horror of forcing children to fight each other to the death.</p>
<p>She sat curled into my arms at a couple points during the movie. Seeing is believing, evidently.</p>
<p>While the filmmakers did their best to minimize the blood and gore, the graphic nature of kids breaking necks, stabbing and slashing, poisoning, etc. disturbs all but the most detached.</p>
<p>The books are actually more graphic and distressing. As I shared in my previous post, I was so sickened by the premise that I put the book down.</p>
<p>Many books deal with children as protagonists in life and death situations &#8212; Lord of the Rings (in the books the Hobbits were coming of age), Ender&#8217;s Game (6 year old protagonist), Black Beauty, Lord of the Flies, etc.</p>
<p>Children read these books, evaluate them, and process them on a different level. Their lack of life experience is a help here. In books, one imagines what one has experienced and apply it to the reading.</p>
<p>The movie gives no such room. The violence is there to see.</p>
<p>There is great risk watching the movie Hunger Games of becoming the voyeur watching the reality game. The American audience, especially, weaned on Survivor, the Bachelor, etc., can be immune to the human difficulty and suffering.</p>
<p>Children are used as pawns and killed while, as a friend stated, trying to hold on to their humanity. This is a subject only the more mature can process. Beware of robbing your child&#8217;s innocence with this movie.</p>
<p>If you doubt your child&#8217;s ability to handle it, wait.</p>
<p>[More about the cultural relevance in the next installment.]</p>
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		<title>The Hunger Games: The Wrong Conclusion [Part 1]</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 22:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Melissa Clouthier</dc:creator>
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<p>Nothing written about <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1392170/">The Hunger Games movie</a> is right. Why? The movie isn&#8217;t right. Is it worth seeing? Absolutely.</p>
<p>It didn&#8217;t occur to me while watching the movie, but when I read <a href="http://hotair.com/archives/2012/03/24/film-review-the-hunger-games/">Ed Morrissey&#8217;s review</a> (meh, derivative) and then this <a href="http://socialistworker.org/2012/01/26/hope-and-the-hunger-games">Socialist&#8217;s site</a> (best movie ever), I knew something was wrong with the movie. And when I read this <a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/people-skills/201203/should-children-see-hunger-games-0">Psychology Today review</a>, I knew something was wrong with the psychologist and our culture [More about that in another post].</p>
<p>People who saw The Hunger Games saw a different movie depending on whether they read the books or not. On the optimistic side: most teens read the books. On the pessimistic side: most parents had not. This lead to two very divergent perspectives on the movie.</p>
<p>The Hunger Games trilogy books describe a dystopian, post-Civil War future where the central government is rich off the backs of twelve districts of slaves. The central government uses technology, coercion, and laws restricting any form of self defense (no guns..no bow and arrows, even&#8211;thus Katniss&#8217; hidden, handmade bow and arrows). </p>
<p>The central government controls by dividing commerce. There are agrarian, fishing, and in Katniss&#8217; case, energy producing districts. Katniss&#8217; father died as a slave in a coal mine to produce energy not for <em>his</em> business or his employer but for the government who would then redistribute the commodity in just enough measure to keep work going to meet the needs of the other districts and to keep the central district in the luxury they were used to.</p>
<p>The oppression, lack of ownership, lack of right to bear arms, lack of free speech, lack of freedom of association, and the central-command misery induced by this situation were never clearly spelled out in the movie. Those who read the books, filled in the blanks. Those who didn&#8217;t, took home an entirely different message. </p>
<p>As one liberal reviewer said it, &#8220;This is a movie about the 99% and the 1%.&#8221;</p>
<p>Uh no. This book was about the oppression of communism and the failure of redistributionism. It was also a book about self-determination and freedom. These are all very American concepts.</p>
<p>The personal despair caused by the oppression really wasn&#8217;t fairly portrayed, either. Peeta fed a starving Katniss (a little CGI work to show her emaciated would have been helpful) at great risk to his own life due to reducing his ability to trade on the black market. His mother would beat him.</p>
<p>After Katniss&#8217; father died, the family was starving. Her mother had completely lost her mind. Collectivism creates individual misery.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, the central government was indulgent: a combination of Elizabethan England, coked out models, and crass material excess. Their entertainment was Roman gladiator meets reality show spectacle where children fought to the death as tributes to &#8220;peace&#8221;. All the districts, including the central one, offered up one boy and one girl between the ages of 12 and 18 as tribute and penance for their warlike past.</p>
<p>The premise of the book was so horrifying to me, I had to put the book down. My daughter, in contrast, seemed strangely unbothered&#8211;until she saw the movie.</p>
<p>And the horror of it all would is compounded by no context. If it isn&#8217;t made clear what the characters will be fighting against, it&#8217;s difficult to grasp their desire for freedom. That is, if they&#8217;re free and just down on their luck, that&#8217;s a different story line. If rich business owners in each district controlled all commerce, that would tell another story.</p>
<p>That would be the storyline the left wants to promote&#8211;thus, the 99 and 1% reference.</p>
<p>Critics and fans of the movie must read the books. Without the story, what is a pretty good movie already, becomes an excellent, and scarier, movie. They&#8217;re not tough reads and they&#8217;ll give the needed context.</p>
<p>Whether it was intentional or just lost on the cutting room floor because of film length, more attention to the foundational <em>why</em> of the story would have helped.</p>
<p>In the next post, I&#8217;ll talk about whether children should attend the movie and how to talk about your kids who do go to the movie. </p>
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		<title>Bill Maher&#8217;s Selective Outrage Over Outrage</title>
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<p>Bill Maher, liberal, pretend libertarian and over all, failed comic, decides, finally, that the outrage over, well, <em>everything</em>, has finally all become too much. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/22/opinion/please-stop-apologizing.html?_r=3&#038;hp">From his editorial in today&#8217;s New York Times</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>When did we get it in our heads that we have the right to never hear anything we don’t like? In the last year, we’ve been shocked and appalled by the unbelievable insensitivity of Nike shoes, the Fighting Sioux, Hank Williams Jr., Cee Lo Green, Ashton Kutcher, Tracy Morgan, Don Imus, Kirk Cameron, Gilbert Gottfried, the Super Bowl halftime show and the ESPN guys who used the wrong cliché for Jeremy Lin after everyone else used all the others. Who can keep up?</p>
<p>This week, President Obama’s chief political strategist, David Axelrod, described Mitt Romney’s constant advertising barrage in Illinois as a “Mittzkrieg,” and instantly the Republican Jewish Coalition was outraged and called out Mr. Axelrod’s “Holocaust and Nazi imagery” as “disturbing.” Because the message of “Mittzkrieg” was clear: Kill all the Jews. Then the coalition demanded not only that Mr. Axelrod apologize immediately but also that Representative Debbie Wasserman Schultz “publicly rebuke” him. For a pun! For punning against humanity!</p>
<p>The right side of America is mad at President Obama because he hugged the late Derrick Bell, a law professor who believed we live in a racist country, 22 years ago; the left side of America is mad at Rush Limbaugh for seemingly proving him right.</p>
<p>If it weren’t for throwing conniption fits, we wouldn’t get any exercise at all.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Please stop apologizing</em>, Maher implores.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how the right&#8217;s outrage machine got started Mr. Maher&#8211;just for your edification. (I will admit, I worried about this tactic for fear it would stop being ironic and become the New Right&#8217;s political correctness.)</p>
<p>See, for years, decades even, the Left&#8217;s number one weapon in its arsenal has been outrage over nothing. Let me make a list:</p>
<p>Silent Spring (Environmentalism outrage)<br />
The new Ice Age (Environmentalism outrage)<br />
Sensitivity training (racism, sexism, minority outrage)<br />
Poisoned apples (Environmentalism outrage)<br />
DDT (Environmentalism outrage)<br />
Any kind of cultural joke&#8230;ever. (See isms above)</p>
<p>Words, and worse, ideas, started to be censured. Like the prohibitionist knitting circle of yore, leftists have cluck clucked their way into power by being the church ladies aggrieved at every blond joke, straying eye, proper use of word (niggardly!!!), scientific disagreement, and on and on.</p>
<p>In response, the right of center side decided to throw the selective outrage back at them.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a lot of pent up fury. How would you feel about being hectored over every meaningless and stupid aside (MACACA!!!!).</p>
<p>So, conservatives through New Media, are holding the left to their own race-baiting, sexist, offensive-language standards. </p>
<p>Big surprise! The left turns out to be more racist, sexist, degrading, closed-minded, and ugly than the right&#8211;something that minorities who have defected from the left know all too well.</p>
<p>And now, when Bill Maher is finally taking some heat for being the sexist jackass that he is, he&#8217;s crying foul. </p>
<p>In the years before New Media, everyone just wink-winked and chortled at how edgy and clever and brave Maher was while castigating conservatives who said far less offensive things.</p>
<p>Restricting speech on one side was such a great tool. Everyone hated conservatives and laughed at liberals. And then they realized they were the butt of the joke.</p>
<p>Now, liberals are hated too.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re welcome.</p>
<p>Liberals have themselves to thank for this fine politically correct mess.</p>
<p>See, I&#8217;m a free speech absolutist. Do I think it&#8217;s despicable to make fun of Sarah Palin&#8217;s kid and calling him a &#8220;retard&#8221;? Yes. Do I want to be able to use the word &#8220;retard&#8221;? Yes.</p>
<p>As in, Bill Maher is a retard.</p>
<p>To have any credibility whatsoever, he should have been decrying the politically correct war on words from the left years ago, but of course, that didn&#8217;t serve his political ends.</p>
<p>My concern on the right is that we&#8217;re becoming as bad as the left&#8211;that is, we&#8217;re actually starting to believe the outrage we&#8217;re pouring at the left.</p>
<p>My concern is that rather than being outraged at the leftists phony outrage and throwing it back at them, we&#8217;re becoming as politically correct and insufferable as them.</p>
<p>As long as Sandra Flukes exist and screech about inequality over nothing, the right has every reason to thrown their hypocrisy back at them.</p>
<p>The minute, though, we buy into political correctness and start being just like the lefty church ladies we loathe, the whole battle has been lost.</p>
<p>Humor, art, science, technology can only thrive where new, outrageous and edgy words and ideas thrive.</p>
<p>Conformity of language is conformity of culture. Stasis.</p>
<p>Free speech. Cherish it.</p>
<p>It would be nice if Bill Maher could have found his outrage at outrage when the leftist outrage machine has survived on outrage fuel. But then, Bill Maher&#8217;s not a great mind or comedian. The irony is lost on him.</p>
<p><strong>Updated:</strong></p>
<p>Bruce of The Conservatory notes <a href="http://www.conservativecommune.com/2012/03/bill-maher-doesnt-like-the-world-media-matters-created/?utm_source=twitterfeed&#038;utm_medium=twitter">what Maher really wants</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>In essence, Maher wants to be able to say anything he wants and not have to apologize for it.</p>
<p>I agree.</p>
<p>Please, do so. And don’t apologize. That is fine with me.</p>
<p>But … and you knew there had to be one … that doesn’t mean what you say is consequence free. You still get to pay the price for what you say.</p>
<p>That’s really what Maher wants to see go by the boards, make no mistake about it.  He really wants no-penalty “free speech”.</p>
<p>Sorry, no such thing. Never has been, never will be.</p></blockquote>
<p>Updated again:</p>
<p>Great piece from Dorian Davis: <a href="http://www.wnyc.org/blogs/its-free-blog/2012/mar/22/opinion-leave-de-niro-and-limbaugh-and-coulter-and-maher-alone/">Get a sense of humor.</a></p>
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<p>Imagine reading this in <a href="http://www.theatlanticwire.com/entertainment/2012/03/new-york-city-sports-now-even-more-jesus/50160/">The Atlantic</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Twitterverse is already taking notice of the &#8220;holy&#8221; pairing of last month&#8217;s sensation New York Knicks point guard Mohammed El Arabi with this afternoon&#8217;s sensation: New York Jets quarterback Abd Al-Ala Awwal. (We&#8217;re still getting used to typing that last one.) New York City&#8217;s professional sports won&#8217;t be lacking in the Qu&#8217;ran thumping department. As you may have already heard, the New York Jets have traded a fourth round pick to the Denver Broncos for Abd Al-Ala Awwal&#8217;s services. For now, the trade sort of puts a stop to the schadenfreude surrounding Abd Al-Ala Awwal and the Peyton Manning acquisition. So what now? Well jokes, of course. For some&#8211;the pairing of the very-Muslim, pro-life, Allah-loving Tebow and New York City might be bit odd. (However, we&#8217;re guessing there&#8217;s some cheering going on around the New York Post and Daily News sports desks). We won&#8217;t know how this will work out for the Jets until the fall. But with Allah, Mohammed El Arabi, and Abd Al-Ala Awwal on New York City&#8217;s side, who&#8217;s going to take the blame for next season&#8217;s losses? </p></blockquote>
<p>Or better yet, this:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Twitterverse is already taking notice of the &#8220;unholy&#8221; pairing of last month&#8217;s sensation New York Knicks point guard George Carlin with this afternoon&#8217;s sensation: New York Jets quarterback Christopher Hitchens. (We&#8217;re still getting used to typing that last one.) New York City&#8217;s professional sports won&#8217;t be lacking in the The God Delusion-thumping department. As you may have already heard, the New York Jets have traded a fourth round pick to the Denver Broncos for Hitchens&#8217; services. For now, the trade sort of puts a stop to the schadenfreude surrounding Hitchens and the Peyton Manning acquisition. So what now? Well jokes, of course. For some&#8211;the pairing of the very-Atheist, abortion loving, God-hating Hitchens and New York City might be bit odd. (However, we&#8217;re guessing there&#8217;s some cheering going on around the New York Times and Wall Street Journal sports desks). We won&#8217;t know how this will work out for the Jets until the fall. But with biology, George Carlin, and Chris Hitchens on New York City&#8217;s side, who&#8217;s going to take the blame for next season&#8217;s losses? </p></blockquote>
<p>And then read this:</p>
<blockquote><p>The Twitterverse is already taking notice of the &#8220;holy&#8221; pairing of last month&#8217;s sensation New York Knicks point guard Jeremy Lin with this afternoon&#8217;s sensation: New York Jets quarterback Tim Tebow. (We&#8217;re still getting used to typing that last one.) New York City&#8217;s professional sports won&#8217;t be lacking in the bible-thumping department. As you may have already heard, the New York Jets have traded a fourth round pick to the Denver Broncos for Tebow&#8217;s services. For now, the trade sort of puts a stop to the schadenfreude surrounding Tebow and the Peyton Manning acquisition. So what now? Well jokes, of course. For some&#8211;the pairing of the very-Christian, pro-life, God-loving Tebow and New York City might be bit odd. (However, we&#8217;re guessing there&#8217;s some cheering going on around the New York Post and Daily News sports desks). We won&#8217;t know how this will work out for the Jets until the fall. But with God, Jeremy Lin, and Tim Tebow on New York City&#8217;s side, who&#8217;s going to take the blame for next season&#8217;s losses?
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<p>The aforementioned was actually written.</p>
<p>God-hating. Christian-despising. American-loathing.</p>
<p>Our modern media is very out of touch with America.</p>
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<p>Lots of people hate Obama. Most of them hated him and his moronic ideology before he got elected the first time.</p>
<p>Many more people loved Obama; they were enthralled and captivated by him. They thought he was different. He was <em>special</em>.</p>
<p>Back in the day, I had a photoshopped picture with Britney Spears screaming girl fans except I exchanged the picture of Britney on their pink T-shirts for a picture of  Obama.</p>
<p>The Obama fangirls didn&#8217;t like this picture.</p>
<p>Everyone loved Obama and the ones who weren&#8217;t totally sure thought something like this, &#8220;well, everybody is doing it, so he must be okay. He&#8217;s gotta be better than the boring old boyfriend.&#8221;</p>
<p>He turned out to not be better. Depending on one&#8217;s point of view, he turned out to be much worse and for a variety of reasons.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nationalreview.com/campaign-spot/293909/do-wavering-obama-voters-think-man-they-voted-naive">Jim Geraghty has a very insightful piece explaining the mind of an Obama voter  that is must-read</a>. Here&#8217;s an excerpt:</p>
<blockquote><p>Monday I spoke to a smart political mind who had been watching focus groups of wavering Obama voters in swing states, and he said that one word that those voters kept coming back to, again and again, was “naïve.”  (The term was to describe the president, not themselves.) Those who voted for Obama won’t call him stupid, and certainly don’t accept that he’s evil. But they have seen grandiose promises on the stimulus fail to materialize, Obamacare touted as the answer to all their health care needs and turn out to be nothing of the sort, pledges of amazing imminent advances in alternative energy, and so on. He seemed to think that <a href="http://blogs.telegraph.co.uk/news/nilegardiner/100110550/barack-obama-looks-foolish-and-naive-in-the-wake-of-the-iran-terror-plot/">reaching out to the Iranians</a> would lead to a change in the regime’s behavior and attitudes. He was surprised to learn that <a href="http://nation.foxnews.com/president-obama/2011/06/13/obama-jokes-jobs-council-shovel-ready-was-not-shovel-ready-we-expected">shovel-ready projects were not, in fact, shovel-ready</a>. He was surprised to learn that <a href="http://blog.american.com/2012/03/the-entire-obama-presidency-in-one-anecdote/">large-scale investment in infrastructure and clean energy projects wouldn’t great enormous numbers of new jobs</a>. He’s <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/business/economy/obamas-efforts-to-aid-homeowners-boost-housing-market-fall-far-short-of-goals/2011/09/22/gIQAoJdeAM_print.html">surprised that his past housing policies haven’t helped struggling homeowners like he promised</a>.  He’s<a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/11/07/president-obama-surprised-political-cost-health-care-law/">surprised that his signature health care policy has become as controversial as it has</a>. The “<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=RmZfj0P_zBk">recession turned out to be a lot deeper than any of us realized</a>.” When a woman says her semiconductor engineer husband can’t find a job, Obama <a href="http://blogs.reuters.com/talesfromthetrail/2012/01/30/obama-tells-high-tech-worker-send-me-your-resume/">says he’s surprised to hear it, because “he often hears business leaders in that field talk of a scarcity of skilled workers.”</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Naive. The screaming girls weren&#8217;t naive. Oh no. The new boyfriend was naive.</p>
<p>The part that bothers me about this mentality is that people who externally project their stupidity tend to not learn from their mistakes.</p>
<p>Still, it&#8217;s wise to think of all the divorced people you know.  Few admit they screwed up. Most, to their dying day, will call their ex evil or wrong and that they, the innocent victim, was horribly deceived. Conned, even.</p>
<p>One Twitter acquaintance says this: RT @heatpacker:  The #GOP must speak #truth about the 2008 Obama Con. Voters must not be insulted for credulity, but portrayed as victims.</p>
<p>A nation of gooey-eyed victims.</p>
<p>Well, for Republicans to win, I don&#8217;t think that blaming Obama voters for their vapidity will go a long ways to convincing them to vote for someone else. How many beaten wives stay with their abusive mates out of sheer stubbornness? He <em>is too</em> good! <em>You just don&#8217;t understand.</em></p>
<p>America can&#8217;t afford that nonsense. So, those voters who saw the Obama fraud for what he was would do well to use great restraint and reinforce the (hopefully) better decision of the deceived masses this time around.</p>
<p>The best thing to do for conned Obama voters? Feel sorry for them. They know not what they did.</p>
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		<title>Social Media Can Kill Your Job Prospects</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. Melissa Clouthier</dc:creator>
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<p>A quick way to kill your job hunting: <a href="http://www.cio.co.uk/news/3345285/tech-firms-rejecting-job-applicants-based-on-their-social-media-profile/?olo=rss">be an idiot on social media</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>One in five technology firms has rejected a job applicant because of his or her social media profile, according to a Eurocom Worldwide Survey.</p>
<p>The annual study had previously found that almost 40 percent of respondents checked out potential employee&#8217;s profiles on social media sites, but this is the first year that companies had confirmed that they had rejected applicants based on their digital presence.</p>
<p>&#8220;The 21st century human is learning that every action leaves an indelible digital trail. In the years ahead many of us will be challenged by what we are making public in various social forums today,&#8221; said Mads Christensen, network director at Eurocom Worldwide.</p>
<p>&#8220;The face the one in five applicants disqualify themselves from an interview because of content in the social media sphere is a warning to job seekers and a true indicator of the digital reality we now live in.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Don&#8217;t be a social media dummy. It could cost you.</p>
<p>Via <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/sistertoldjah/statuses/181840754505809920">@sistertoldjah</a></p>
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